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Ita Kalmar karamin yaro a kundin tsari tana nufin yaro ko yarinya wanda bai haura shekaru 18 ba (a takaice wanda bai balaga ba) dalili kuwa shine a bincike na masana sun yi amanna da cewa sai mutum ya kai shekara 18 ne ya soma mallakar hankalinsa, a wannan shekaru ne dokar kasa ta hau kan shi. To a hakikanin gaskiyaπŸ’‍♀, duk abu wanda aka kirkira, yanada alfanu, haka zalika yana da illoli tari duk da cewa shi Alexander Graham Bell (wanda ya kirkiri wayar tarho) phone πŸ“² bai da makusa, yayi amfani da hikimarsa ne wurin bada tasa gudunmuwa dan cigaban dan Adam a rayuwa duk da cewa an samu wasu sauye-sauye bayan tashi fasahar.☺ . Ban sani ba ko akwai wata doka da ta hana matasa ‘yan kasa shekara da 18 amfani da wayar salula ba,
Ko akwai???πŸ€”πŸ€”*Kididdiga ta nuna cewar kaso 78% a cikin 100% na yara dake tsakanin shekara 12-17 sun riga sun mallaki wayar salula. Amfani da wayar salula da matasa ‘yan kasa da shekara 18 ke yi ya zama barazana ba ma akan su kawai ba, a’a har ma ga al’umma duka.* Wayoyi suna taimakawa ya wani fannin Zumunci: Waya ta taimaka sosai wurin sada zumunci. Sada zumunci ta hanyar hada ‘yanuwa wanda suke nesa da juna. Waya tana taimakawa wurin gudanar da harkokin kasuwanci. Manyan ‘yan kasuwa da ma kanana suna amfani da waya sosai domin gudanar da harkokin kasuwancin su, a yau mai son siyan kaya a wurin wani dan kasuwa zai iya daga wayarsa daga gida ya kira abokan cinikin sa dan siya ko siyar da hajarsa a nan gida Najeriya ko a kasar waje. Wayar salula ta taka muhimmiyar rawa wurin sadarda agaji na gaugawa. Misalin maras lafiya zai iya amfani da wayarsa dan kiran wani dan’uwan nasa ko kuma ya kira likita domin dauki a gareshi. To wannan kadan kenan daga cikin alfanu na wayar salula, wanda zai iya kasancewa manya har matasan suna amfanuwa da shi. Illolin waya Abu nafarko Lalalcewar tarbiya *Lalacewar tarbiyya: Saboda samun cigaba na zamani da ya auku, kamar yadda aka ambata a baya, wayar salula tayi jagora sosai da gaske wurin wargaza tarbiyyar matasa. Idan kayi duba ga yanar gizo gizo, akwai manhjoji da suke basu da aiki wanda ya wuce zuba hotuna da bidio na kallo wanda suke kunshe da batsa da nuna tsiraici. *🀦‍♀🀦‍♀ A bincike na masana da aka gudanar kwana-kwanan nan ya nuna cewar akwai irin wadannan manhajoji akan yanar gizo sama da dubu dari. Haka binciken ya nuna cewa, Najeriya tana daya daga cikin kasashe wanda sukafi kowa shiga wannan shafuffuka, wannan abun iyaye su duba ne, su saka ido akan ‘yan ‘yansu domin ganin sun kubutar da su daga irin shafuffukan, dalili kuwa shine kowa ya sani a addinnace walau Krista ko Musulmi cewa bayyanar da tsiraici bai karbuwa ga al’ummar mu domin yana taimakawa wurin rugejewar tarbiyya da samun barna ta bangaren fyade, haka ma yana ruguza al’umma da imaninsu. Akwai abunda ake kira da ‘cybersex’ a turance, ma’anarsa shine zina ta yanar gizo ko shafukan sada zumunta wanda hakan yana faruwa ba tare da sanin iyaye ba. Yana faruwa ta hanyar kiran waya ko kuma zance a shafukan sada zumunta. Masu wannan dabi’a suna bin hanyar taba al’aurar su dan su biyawa kansu bukata. Wannan ba karamin fasadi bane garesu da kuma al’umma baki daya. *Haduwa da abokai bata gari: A nan Kalmar aboki bata gari yana nufin aboki wanda yake neman wanda zasu yi tarayya da shi wurin wata harka ta barna. Daga gida ko a wani wuri, wani saurayi zai iya hada lambobi a wayarsa ya danna kira, burinsa ya samu mace ta daga wayar. Idan yayi nasa kuwa ya samu macen ta dauka sai ya gabatar da manufofinsa, idan itama ra’ayinta yayi daidai da nasa shikenan sai barna ta auku. Idan kuwa yayi rashin nasara aka samu akasin bata karbi ra’ayin nasa ba, sai yayi kokarin jawo hankalinta da kalamai har ta dawo ta amince da zancensa saboda karancin wayo. * Tabarbarewar Karatu: Binciken masan ya nuna cewar yawan amfani da da wayar salula da matasa keyi yana haifar da koma baya ga iliminsu. Wannan ne ma yasa makarantu da dama suka hana dalibansu mu’amula da wayar salula yayinda suke cikin farfajiyar makaranta Daliln haka kuwa abune mai saukin fahimta. A wannan zamani da muke ciki ya sanya bincike yayi karanci a tsakanin matasanmu ta hanyar yin amfani da shafin ‘Matambayi Baka Bata’ wato GOOGLE turance. Yana taimakawa wurin satar amsa matuka. Shi wannan shafin yasa matasanmu sun manta amfanin dakunan karatu wato ‘Library’. Sannan kuma ita wannan salular tana kunshe da na’urar lissafi da na’urar daukar hoto, duka wannan suna taimakawa wurin dauke hankali a lokacin darasi. CΓ£ca: Shafuka da ake ta kirkirowa a yanzu dangin cΓ£ca sun zama ruwan dare. Misalin irin su akwai ‘9jabet, NairaBet, 365bet’ sun taimaka kwarai wurin afkawar matasanmu da yara kanana cikin halaka domin shafin yana bada dama da duk wanda ya shiga yayi zabi tsakanin kungiyoyin kwallon kafa wadda za tayi nasara akan wata ta hanyar sadaukar da wasu kudade. Rashin Isasshen Barci: Hakika barci yana da matukar amfani ga matashi. A kowacce rana matashi yana bukatar yayi barci na awa 9 da rabi to amma wasu basu amfani da wannan damar dan ganin sun cimma wanna awowin suna barcin sai dai su mayar da hankalinsu ga yanar gizo ko shafukan sada zumunta irin su Facebook ko Whatsapp. Zaka ga matashi ya kwashe lokaci mai tsawo yana rike da wayarsa, ya hana idanunsa runtsawa a karshe sai kaga yaro idan yaje aji wurin darasi ka sameshi yana barci wannan illar ta jawo koma baya ta hanyar neman ilimi. Kuma harda matan aure na Yanxu idan mace tai fada damijinta ko suka samu wani dan misunderstanding shikenan shi ko ita ko oho 🀷‍♀🀷‍♂ Zakiga sun bude Facebook yadauke musu hankali Sa'annan ta fannin zamantakewa ma waya ta kawo yankewar Zumunci
Domin yanxun sai Dan uwa ya shekara bai je gidan Dan uwansa ba Kuma sunan suna gari daya
Dalilinsu kuwa shine ai suna waya
Wanda hakan ya sa zumunci ba kafa yayi wuya yanzun Sirri: A wannan zamani da muke ciki yanzu, zamani ne wanda sirrin mu gaba daya bamu da tabbacin sa kuma yana kara kasancewa cikin barazan idan muka barshi a fili ta hanyar da makiya zasu iya amfani da shi wurin zambatarmu da wannan damar. Abun mamaki ne ga yanda wani bincike ya nuna cewar kashi 52 na matasa basu kashe na’urar GPS da ke a cikin salularsu idan suna amfani da yanar gizo ko shafukan sada zumunta. Wasu har sun kai matsayin da suna yada adireshin su a shafukan sada zumunta, daukar hotuna a gidajen su suna aikawa kai har ma hada lokaci na sirri dan saduwa ta fuska da wani wanda basu taba gani ba a zahiri sai dai fira a yanar gizo. Wannan bai tsaya nan ba, wasu sun kai matsayin suna bayyana zuri’arsu ko rayuwarsu wadda ta shafesu ga abokai da ko wani bako a shafukan sada zumunta. Ni da kaina nayi badda kama nayi fira da wata karamar yarinya, abubuwanda ta fada mun game da rayuwarta ya gigita ni, har ta kai tana fada mun sirrikanta na boye. Wannan abu ne mai matukar tsoratarwa. Iyaye sun bijiro da dalilai daban-daban da yasa suke so ‘ya’yansu su mallaki wayar salula. *Ya kamata ayi nazari mai zurfin gaske tsakanin amfaninta da kuma illolinta kafin a basu damar rika wannan na’ura.. Wani mai bincike ya saki bidiyo na kallo inda ya nuna yanda yake magana da matasa a asirce ta shafukan sada zumunta kai har ma hada wata haduwa ta musamman a wani kebantaccen wuri. Yayi hakan ne tare da sanin iyayen su dan ya nusar da su iyayen illar wayar salula. Zaka iya kaddara yanda karshen labarin ya kasance idan ace wani mutum ne wanda ba’a san asalin sa.πŸ™†‍♀Balaga, kaifin tunani da kalar wayar dake hannun matasa da makamantansu, sune ya kamata a duba kafin a baiwa wani matashi damar rike waya. *Haka zalika, tsauraran matakai na bukatuwa wurin kula da hanyoyi da yara suke mu’amula da waya. * *
*Shawara zuwa ga matan aure ayau * Topic
A matsayin ki na uwa *ya* like binkicen wayar yaranki?? Uwa ita yadace ta binciki wayar yarta akowane lokaci Shiyasa Ni banga amfanin saka waya a security code ba Idan Taga yarinyar ta maida hankali wajen Chatting ko kallon wani abun to tacewa yarinyar mikomin wayar nan ita kuma uwar saita shiga dakinta ta duba abunda zata duba Eh akwai yaran da dole a basu waya saboda wasu dalilai
Misali:-
Zuwa sabuwa makaranta maana jami'a.dss Gaskiya da kamar wuya wannan sis ta wani bangaren ma gara ki batta ta rike inba hakaba a kawayenta bazata rasa inda zata araba Ba kya gani in ta gane ta karba zata koyi rashin gskya Yes in baki siya mata ba saurayi ko qawaye sa siya mata Ai bakoda yaushe zatana karba ba Tabbas hakan nada kyau idan ta shiga toilet zaki iya ki dauka ki duba KO kisata aekin girki kije ki chaje wayar kiga abin da takeyi ko da mara kyau a ciki Wnn haka take amma sometimes akwai yaran da wayrsu biu da ta kirki data banza Ni anawa ganin Wai kisa ta aiki ko in tashiga toilet duka zata gane kuma ta chnga abnda take,wata ma dashi take Shiga toilet end wata kuma ba anan take rashn jn NATA ba,zata iya baki wayarma ki wuni kina dubawa ba zakiga komai ba,wata kuma kina dubawa zaki gani.
Idan Allah y hadaki da yarinya mai wayyo toh tabbas sai kinyi taka tsantsan kuma kin zama mai wayyo kema ta hanyoyi da dama ta Inda duk inda tayi ki maza ki bille yaran yanxu d wayyonsu ake haifarsu,amma akwai hnyoyi da zaki chaje wayar bata sank b kuma ba zata gane ba. Ae bazaki nuna dama wani Abu zaki yiba kawai zakasa ido ne kaga yaushe ne ta tashi tabar wyar agun Dafarko de kina bukatar bama yayanki tarbiyya mekyau abunda burgewa inyazamana kincusama yayanki tsoron Allah sama da tsoron kowa tun suna kanana Akwai yarinyar da agidansu bata time waya kuma tana yin abinda ko mai waya uku bata yinshi,yawanci in yarinya shuumace kawai an gama ai matsalan a inda take shene security taya zaka gane pin din da tasa batare da ka tambaye ta ba wata kana ce mata mikomin zata kashe dolle kuma ka tmby ta pin din datasa Allah dai ya shirya mana zuri a Ai bana zata barta sai dai in ta shaafa,uawancin yara sukan tafi d wayrsu ko INA ko toilet ko aike kai ko INA Dan ma kar again a dauka ko Dan kar su rasa missedcall Ai dole inde kina Jan yarki a jiki ki San wann ba shima Dade d sauraynta hirar da sukai d abnda zasuce duka zaki sani Dukda haka kirikasa ido a al,amarin yayanki akan komai nasu sbd fadar manxon Allah saw "dukkanku masu kiwone kuma za a tambayeku akan Kiwon da aka Baku"Dan haka sekina lura da kiwonki inba haka bazaki shaba gaban Allah Wnn haka take in kika fiya takura kuma a biyo ta bayan fagge ba saidai fassword dinda suke sakawa, basa bari asani😊 To ai wasu shedanun yaran idan suka hadu da kawayen banza bazasu rika abun assha da wayoyinsunba seda na kawaye idan sunhadu musamman idan sunsan mahaifiyarsu Nada lura da komai nasu.Dan haka dole Musa ido akan dawa yayammu suke kawance Wann ma hanyace,amma wataran in qawar ta zo gun yarki sai kice mata naga wayarki,ta yanda bata zata ba Valle tsammni anan ma zaki mata bincike kawai hnklnki kwnce kokuma kice zaki tura film ko wani application daban Wanda kikan zata iyayiwuwa akwai Yarinya takan tafi islamiyya ko makarantar boko toh anan kina iya hanata wayar nan ma sai ki zauna duk wani chat da take duk wani mssg inbox d sent,duk wani internet Sosai kuwa don abubuwa dayawa kawayen kishigo musu dasu idan sukasan kinada tsanani Ai budurwa takai wnn gajin bata bukatar tsanani,kawai addua da dadin baki zakiyi kuma kar ki sake ta kwana da yunwa ko da kuwa tace ta koshi,duk wani Abu da zata nema wani ya taradda na da kenan Wasu kuma idan sukaga kinfi maida hankalinki akan waya saisu bar wayar bakomai sai a koma kan laptop ko tab Kina iya duk karfe 8 nadare kice tabaki wayar se da safe zakibata tanan za ki iya Dubawa Ita budurwa a dabara akejin komai NATA,ki nuna karfi sai ta gagreki Wnn ma zai iya yiwuwa,amma zakisa tana tinann kin hanata waya bari ta samo wata😜 Sosai da idona nagani wata yar makociyata da uwarta tahanata rike waya sewani malminta naboko yabata kullum wayar nagdn kawayenta sedare daga islamiya seta amso idan uwar na night duty takwana bidala da wayar dasafe setaba kawar wayar insun hadu a boko itakuma seta amsa da daddare ba,ataba ganewa a gdnsuba seda sukai fada da kawar suka tonama junansu asiri Wann ba qaramin qalubale bane ga iyaye Allah ko kyau kikaga yarki nayi ki binkiceta,ko farin ciki ta fiye yi nanma ki binciketa Dole kikaga aminci yana yawan muaamala d qawa daya toh gskya kisaka ido sosai plz Ai wata dataga kina mata haka to zata tabbatar da kafin lkcin tayi deleting din duk abinda bataso agani imma bata nemi wata taboyeba Sosai mafuta kawai kicusama yayanki tauheedi Susan duk abunda suke Allah na kallonsu sannan kisa ido akan dawa suke mu,amala sbd in anaso asan waye wane to adubi abokansu,sannan ni aganina ba wayewa bace kibar yarki tashaku sosai da waya ace duk wani social media tanayinta tasanta.sannan sekidage da addu,ar Allah yashirya miki abunda yabaki Ai sai da addua kawai sbd akwai wani application waishi app lock amfanin shi kuwa zaki iya boye duk wani application din da ba kyaso agani ko video ko photo ko waka kome kk so zaki iya boyewa koma in kinaso shi kanshi app lock din ya bace akan wayanki akwai wasu code da ake dannawa sai ya bace to ko zaki Kwana kina duba wayar yarki wlh baxakiga komai ba itako da kin bata xata danna code dinnan tayi abin da xatayi ta koma batar da shi Ke ko kin sake baki ai yata batasan komai ba bature so yake ya lalata tarbiyan yaranmu so zai iya bin duk wata hanya daba xata bille ba Allah dai ya shirya mana zuria Uwa ya kamata ta dinga bincikar wayar yaran akoda yaushe kuma ba zato ba tsammani. Haka ake cemin na cika wauta in ina ba mamana labarin yadda mukai da saurayi. In na fada ne aimin in nayi ba dai dai ba. Sannan wani abin acemin ga yadda yakamata ayi. No matter how smart the parent are their children outsmart them.... Kawai ki kasan ce kin shaku da yaranki tun suna kanana. Ki kajasu ajiki. Kiyi kokari ki koya musu tsoron Allah. Da tsoratar dasu da labarai na abinda ke faruwa da wanda suke saba ma Allah Tun suna kanana ne ake musu wannan horon tareda addu'a Kar kicika sa ido a komai nasu ta yadda zasu fahimci kamar kina zarginsu ne. In kikai haka zaki rusa zamantakewa me kyau tsakaninku In kina tunanin suna wani Abu a fakaice zaki ta musu nasiha akan wannan ko ki basu labari me kama da hakan da matsalar da hakan ke kawo wa sai ki bisu da addu'a Amma maganar daukar waya ki bincika ba tareda sun sani ba shine kawai kisa ayi monitoring every call dinsu. Yara Nasa code a waya Kuma in kika hanasu zasuyi zargin wani Abu. Lallai kiyi kokari kisan shi waye kije kisa a bincika miki shi. In ta kama har iyayensa ki sanar dasu shima kiyi masa interview Dan ki fahimci waye shi. A tunanina bincikar wayar Yara ba tareda sun sani ba kamar bame yuyuwa bane. In kinga haka ya faru to lallai dama babu komai a wayar ne. Amma in har ansan baa kulla gaskiya koda password to baza a barta Inda zaki gani ba. In kin same shi ba wata matsala kuma aure ya shirya kawai ki aurar da yarki ki huta. In Kuma ba auren zaiyi ba kisan dabarar da zaki bullo da ita dan ganin kin rabasu. Ki amfani da davara ki fahimtar da ita illar shi kada kice by force zaki rabasu You know ur children well and you know the weakness of each of them. You can use it in some circumstance Ina tunanin ba yara lavarin naki rayuwar kafin aure da yadda kikayi fighting da mayaudaran maza da Kuma irin kaunar da babansu ke nuna miki sabida tsare masa kanki da ki kayi zai taimaka musu. Not all can be said but wasu abubuwan that's the only way u can coach them. In sun fada in kinji be dace ba sai ki gyara musu. Wannan zai rika taimaka ma tunaninsu da Kuma nufar ki dan neman shawara. Akwai age din Yara ke kaiwa dole sai da dabara ake tarbiyarsu. Matukar dai kin kula da tarbiyarsu kin jasu ajiki a shekarun yarintarsu to bakida matsala. In akwai abinda yafi waya lalata tarbiya in shaa Allah Allah zai tsare miki su You know how life is as a mother. Domin Kinyi yan matanci. Mistakes dinki karki bari suyi shi. Abinda ya amfaneki ki fada musu. Sannan addu'a itace babban garkuwa tun suna ciki.
Ga yan mata tun kafin kiyi aure a daure arika ma Yaya addu'a in kina da rabon auren bakida tabbacin zaki rayu dasu. Addu'ar da kika dade kina musu ko kin mutu zata amfanesu. If made a mistake in ur life ki roki Allah kar ya jarabci yaranki da wannan mistake din. Sannan ki roka ma mijinki shiriya da yalwar zuciya Dana aljihu. Domin suma jigo ne akan tarbiya Hatta Abokan zama naki, na mijinki da na yaranki ki roki nagari. Dan yawanci Sune jigon bata komai. Ubangiji ya shirya mu da zuri'ar mu ya tsare mu daga sharrin azzalumai ya karemu daga sharrin kawunanmu da shaidanun cikin mu. *Zafi da tsanani da takura basa tarbiya saidai kangarar da yaro* Jan da ajiki da nasiha itace mafita.


And make sure kun kiyaye dukkan hakkokinsa da Allah ya Dora muku. Wllh yammatan yanzu fa sai addu'a da nasiha da Jan kunne in bahaka ba duk wayon uwa wllh yaran yanzu wasun sunfi karfi kiyi ta mata nasiha da addu'a Allah ya shirya miki yara, ki roqi allah kar ha barki da wayonki ko dabarar ki wajen tarbiyyar yayanki, ki roqi allah ya shirya miki su akan hanya madaidai ciya Yammatan yanzu wllh ko kin karbi wayarsu ba sanin abinda ke ciki zakiba saboda wani folder suke saka abubuwansu su boye ko kin karba ba lalle ki gani ba wllh wayar wata ko kwana tayi a wajenki ba lalle kigane abinda ke ciki ba amma duk da haka bincika wayar budurwa din yanada amfani amma kuma saikin san hanyoyin da zakibi na bincikar wayar Kuma matsalar ba anan take ba wasu iyayen basu yi karatu ba kuma basusan kan wayar ba wasu kuma basa tunanin bincika wayar ya saboda sun yarda da da ita suna ganin ba abinda yarsu zata aikata da waya Mara kyau kuma sai wani abu ya faru suzo suna cewa ai kaddarace kuma tariga fata basa tunanin sakacin da sukayi da yaran tun abaya kuma ba tunanin gyara gaba Uwa itace ya dace da ta binciki wayar yarta da kuma kula da dukkan abinda ta k yi a waya a kowane lkc.sakaci ne ga uwa na rashi sa ido a kan al'amuran yarta,wata uwar fa babu ruwanta da irin abinda yarta tk yi wanda hk ba dai dai bn.Allah yasa mudace.Ameen Ai tun farko ne zaki Gina yayanki. Abune me kyau kirika bibiyar ya ranka. Amma in akace za'a matsa to maimakon gyara batawa za'ayi.

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