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MASU WASA DA AL'AURARRSU......(matassa)










WASA-DA-AL'AURA / WASA DA GABA DA ILLOLINSA GA MATASA

Wasa-da-al'aura ko wasa da gaba (Istimna'i [masturbation]) na nufin yin amfani da hannu, yatsa ko wani abu domin biyan bukatar jima'i ga mutum da kansa da tunanin saduwa da wata mace ko wani namiji , ga mace. Ana kiran wannan dabi'a "zinar hannu".Wasa-da-al'aura ko wasa da gaba dabi'a ce da take faruwa da yaduwa cikin mutane da dama - yara matasa, da manya musamman cikin matasa mararsa aure ko wanda aurensu ya mutu, koma rashin gamsuwar aure. Wannan dabi'a ta zamo ruwan dare kuma abin 'kyama saboda wasu dalilai, wato dalilan addini, na al'adu, da kuma na lafiya. Dalilan lafiya da zamu yi magana akansu, suna magana ne game da yawan yin istimina'i da illarsa ga mai yawan yi wanda ya zama dabi'arsa koda yaushe (An addict person who overmasturbates ). Bincike-binciken wasu masana kimiyya da muka tattaro game da yawan wasa-da-al'aura (over-masturbation), na nuna cewa YAWAN WASA-DA -AL'AURA (excessive masturbation or over-masturbation) nada illololi ga lafiya. Duk da yake dai masana sunyi saɓani akan mas'alar istimna'i, inda wasu ke ganin yana da illa wasu kuma basa ganin haka saima kishiyar haka, to sai dai babu rikici akan cewa yawan yin istimna'i nada illa ga lafiya. Yana iya haddasa wadannan matsalolin idan ya zama halin mutum baya jin daɗi sai ya aikata (addiction):

Yawan mantuwa, rage hazaqar kwalwa, kankancewar zakari da maraina, saurin kawowa ko rashin karfin mazakuta. Sauran matsalolin dazai iya haddasawa , sun hada da: ramar jiki ko 'karancin sha'awa, karancin maniyyi ko tsinkewar maniyyi da raguwar ingancinsa (wanda na iya haddasa rashin haifuwa) , raunin jiki, raunin garkuwar jiki, jin ciwon kai akai-akai, ciwon baya, fitar maniyyi daga zakari hakanan ba tare da mutum yayi niyya ba - ba tare da yayi istimna'i ba ko yayi jima'i, haka nan kawai.

Wasu illololin da zasu iya faruwa saboda istimna'i: bushewar fatar kan zakari ko illa ga fatar saboda gugar fatar, karkacewar zakari (penis curvature) ko sauya masa sigarsa ta asali, bugawar zuciya da sauri, zubar gashi, kurajen fuska.

ILLAR ISTIMNA'I GA MACE

Mace zata iya samun wasu daga cikin matsalolin da mu kayi bayani a sama. Wasu matsalolin daka iya shafar mace sune: Rashin rike fitsari da kyau (ga mace) ko
Yawan zuwa fitsari saboda saka wani abu cikin farji lokacin istimna'i, wuyar kawowa ga mace wajen jima'i (dalilin koyama jikinta da sai an taɓa wani sashen farji don ta kawo, wanda mai yiwuwa ne zakari baya taɓa wurin lokacin saduwa - a zahirin jima'i. Don haka istimna'i yana sa rashin gamsuwar jima'i ga mace - mijinta zai sha wahala wajen gamsar da ita. Jikinta ya riga ya koya, tayima kanta horo. Dalilin haka, mace zata ji dadin istimna'i fiye da jima'i , hakan kuma zai zamo mata matsala idan tayi aure. Zata ringa tunanin mijinta baya iya gamsar da ita ko mazaje data aura, saboda sabon da tayi da koyama jikinta hanyar gamsar da kanta fiye da hanyar da ta dace, wato jima'i a cikin sunnar aure. Ta canza dabi'ar ta. Da yawa zaka samu cewa mata masu yawan istimna'i basu jin daɗin jima'i sai istimna'i, koma basu gamsuwa sai sunyi istimna'i a bandaki bayan saduwa da mazajen aurensu. Wannan zai iya kawo babbar matsala a cikin aure. Bugu da kari, dadilan rashin gamsuwar mace wajen saduwa da mijinta suna da yawa. Don haka, bazamu iya cewa ba yin istimna'i kafin aure shine dalilin dake hana gamsuwa kadai ba. Akwai wasu dalilan na daban, wasu matsalolin nada alaka da bangaren mazajen.

Mutumin da matsalar yawan wasa-da-al'aura ta zama dabi'arsa koda yaushe (addict) zaya iya maganin matsalar. Idan har yazama dabi'ar mutum baya jin dadin rayuwarsa sai yayi istimna'i (sau 2, 3, 4 ko fiye da haka a kowace rana) [addiction] toh zai iya kawo sauye-sauye (canje-canje) ga jikin mutum wanda lafiya bata maraba dasu ( such as hormonal imbalance), saboda yawan zubda sinadaran jikin mutum wajen inzali fiye dabi'ar jima'i ta gaskiya da sauyin yanayin jiki sakamakon yawan hakan . Yana da hadari ga lafiya yanda wasu matasa suka maida wannan dabi'arsu ta koda yaushe, a bandaki, a daki, a waje, ko a wurinda dama ba'a tsammani suna istimna'i.

Mutumin da matsalar yawan wasa-da-al'aura ta zama dabi'arsa koda yaushe (addict) zaya iya maganin matsalar. Idan har yazama dabi'ar mutum baya jin dadin rayuwarsa sai yayi istimna'i (sau 2, 3, 4 ko fiye da haka a kowace rana) [addiction] toh zai iya kawo sauye-sauye (canje-canje) ga jikin mutum wanda lafiya bata maraba dasu ( such as hormonal imbalance), saboda yawan zubda sinadaran jikin mutum wajen inzali fiye dabi'ar jima'i ta gaskiya da sauyin yanayin jiki sakamakon yawan hakan . Yana da hadari ga lafiya yanda wasu matasa suka maida wannan dabi'arsu ta koda yaushe, a bandaki, a daki, a waje, ko a wurinda dama ba'a tsammani suna istimna'i. Yawan Istimna'i mummunar dabi'a ce. Yana da muhimmanci ga masu yawan sha'awa suyi aure , idan babu halin yin auren toh sai su lazimci yin azumi kamar yanda addinin Musulunci ya koyar. Haka kuma, mutum zai iya dinga cin abinci wanda aka sarrafa da WAKEN- SUYA (soya bean) domin bincike ya nuna cewa yana rage sha'awa. Za'a iya kuma yawaita amfani da NA'A-NA'A (pepper mint/mint) , na'a-na'a nada amfani ga lafiya sosai, toh amma sinadarin minti (menthol) da take dashi yana dakushe sha'awa idan yayi yawa. Don haka, a nemi bayanan Malaman Sunnah akan wannan mas'ala, don karin bayani.
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Bugu da kari, mutum mai yawan sha'awa ya rage yawan zama cikin daki cikin kadaici yana tunane-tunane. Mutum ya maida kansa kullum BUSY da karatun Al-Qur'ani da kuma wani aiki, musamman idan yaji sha'awa na tsunkulin / muntsulin sa. Idan kuma mutum yasan yana kallace-kallacen haramun kamar fina-finan batsa, hotunan batsa (musamman a yanar gizo) ko kuma mata (masu kallon maza) akan hanya toh aji tsoron Allah a daina, domin kuwa wadannan na daga cikin manyan-manyan masifun dake jefa matasa cikin wannan hali.
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Idan har daya ko fiye daya daga cikin wadancan alamomin illar yawan wasa- da-gaba sun bayyana a gareka, toh ya zama dole idan kana son lafiyarka ko lafiyarki ki daina kuma a nemi magani domin a tsiratar da lafiya, ta dawo yanda take. Idan ba haka ba, zai iya shafar illahirin lafiya, wani lokacin ma sai a dade ba'a gane abinda ke damun mutum ba. Wannan yana faruwa da yawa ga matasa, kuma muna ganin irin wadannan " cases" barkatai. Haka kuma muna samun rahotanni da yawa sosai akan wannan matsala. Abin takaici shine, mutum baya neman taimako ko magani da wuri sai wai anyi masa baiko ko kuma bikinsa saura wata 1 ko 2. Idan har kana da wannan matsala ba abin kunya bane neman magani, kada ka zauna a cikin matsala har sai ta girma sa'annan ka nemi taimako a lokacinda kunyar ta riga ta cutar dakai.
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